Wellness

Reading is sexy.

We only include products that have been independently selected by Bustle’s editorial team.

Read these alone, with your partner, with yourbook club, or even with your mom.

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The more you become comfortablereadingabout sex, the more you become comfortable talking about sex.

Here, sex experts share some of their favoritesex-positive books.

Remember, being sex positive is about choice!

Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

If youre into astrology, why not use it as an inroad into your sexuality.

Stewart also recommends a book she co-authored, which integrates sexual theories with practical techniques.

It’s also not gendered and purposely inclusive so that everyone can enjoy pieces of this book.

‘The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide For All Of Us’ by Felice Newman

How do you keep sex exciting when things have gotten comfortable?

How do you enjoy the benefits of emotional intimacy to ratchet up physical intensity?

These are the questions the author, a psychiatrist, asks in this book.

‘The Astrology of Love and Sex: A Modern Compatibility Guide’ by Annabel Gat

Who said one plus one equals a relationship?

This book, written by a therapist, helps you unpack your subconscious and enjoy aguilt-free sex life.

Whether youre seriously into kink or have onlydabbled in BDSM, one key theme of sex is power.

‘The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex’ by Je…

‘She-Ology: The Definitive Guide to Women’s Intimate Health’ by Sherry A. Ross, M.D.

‘Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship’ by Stephen Sn…

‘The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and…

‘Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Lif…

‘Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure, and Relationships’ by Juno Roche

‘The Dominance Playbook: Ways to Play With Power in Scenes and Relationships’ by Anton Fulmen