Relationships
Because hearing communication is key can only help so much.
If youre struggling with your S.O.
or just looking for ways to continueenhancing your relationship, you might benefit from some lesser-known pointers.
Couples will likely experience chapters of boredom in their relationship, she tells Bustle.
So take it as a sign to check in and make some changes.
Agree to press pause and resume the conversation in the morning.
sees things differently than you.
5Understand That Change Is Inevitable & Not A Bad Thing
People change, and your beloved S.O.
isnt exempt from that universal truth.
Understanding this will help you grow with your significant other and not resent them for bettering themself.
Change is constant, and that is something both of you could celebrate together.
Choosing to love every version of them throughout your relationship will help you to grow together.
One of the romanticized myths about intimate relationships is that more time together is always better, says Solomon.
But spending time apart can help couples appreciate each other more, she explains.
When partners cultivate other relationships, they expect less from their intimate relationship, she says.
There is less disappointment or frustration because partners are cultivating happiness from multiple sources.
7Always Work Through Family Challenges
Youve probably seen movies that involve the classicmonster-in-law trope.
This might look like travel, going to a concert or show, or trying a different cuisine.
Making a conscious effort will help keep you and your S.O.
Roommate problems are for roommates.
Its important to work on separating these concerns from your relationship, Moir says.
By doing so, youll become better at picking your battles.
Choosing a partner is a major decision, after all.
