Relationships
#7 is straight-up toxic.
It can clue you into how that person might be in other areas of the relationship, she says.
These Bedroom Habits Are A Red Flag
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A healthy partner and sexual lover will care about reciprocity and making sure youre satisfied, too.
A quick How does that feel?
shows a partner is thinking about you, and it also opens the floor for adjustments.
This can play out in so many ways.
Think kinks, fantasies, or even justnew sex positions.
This isnt about convincing them to do something (remember, no shaming or guilting!)
but about being on the same page in terms of energy and adventurousness.
Some peoplelove to be called a nameas a steamy turn-on.
But if your partner whips out these words unexpectedly mid-hookup, take note of how you feel.
According to Bralove, being called demeaning names during sex indicates a pretty clear lack of respect.
Its why many experts consider it a red flag if your partner continuously looks away.
In some cases, it could also be a clue theyre about to ghost you.
Any behavior that feels demeaning to you is demeaning to you.
Go with your gut instinct.
They Get Upset If You Stop
Similarly, not all hookups go smoothly.
You may change your mind halfway through or not feel well and want to stop.
If so, your partner should be more than happy to hit the pause button.
If they arent able to do so without getting huffy, thats a red flag.
They Dont Connect Emotionally
Not every hookup has to be slow and sultry or sweet and long-lasting.
The foundation for a healthy relationship includes emotional intimacy, so without this the relationship is unstable.
The same is true if they dont kiss, smile, or get close during sex.
Humor can act as a shield and demonstrate emotional immaturity, says Bogdanovic.
If theyre open and responsive, thats a green flag, she says.
Chances are the relationship wont be a good long-term fit.
