Dating
For when all youre getting back is cool.
When youregetting to know someone new especially a potential partner half the fun comes from those initial text conversations.
But what happens when your prospective boo doesnt seem to have much to say?
What if they cant seem to muster more than a Cool or Not much?
That, friends, is what we call a dry texter.
Discerning that would be more possible through in-person interactions, where they might be more inclined to chat.
Good morning!
Whats something youre looking forward to today?
This shows them that you paid attention to what they had to say.
Plus, its an easy way to get them talking.
Tell me something funny that happened to you today!
As Rashaun tells Bustle, Over time, people become more comfortable as they get to know one another.
Sussing out whatmakes someone laughis a fantastic way to do just that.
Would you rather questions arent just for the kids.
Germany recommends this format as a fun way to connect and make each other laugh.
I hope dinner with your mom was nice!
What did she say about your new haircut?
Throwing in a specific question they cant give a one-word answer is also a good idea.
What was the last podcast episode you listened to about?
This question is also great because itll reveal more about their niche interests to you.
Who knows, maybe youll get hooked on the show, too.
Have you listened to Still Woozys new album?
I need to know what your top 3 fave tracks were.
All big music buffs know how important new album releases are.
If you both share a favorite band or artist, this opens up a world of conversational possibilities.
You just might find yourselves bonding over your obsession for a specific lyric or catchy chorus.
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A little self-deprecation in the name of sparking up a hilarious conversation can work wonders.
Especially if youre both intoastrology, this can lead to some cute honey-roasting about your cosmic quirks.
Im loving the work-from-home playlist you made!
Where do you get the inspiration for your music taste from?
What were 3 exciting things that happened to you this week?
Im telling my friend about that arcade bar you mentioned to me.
What would you say is the vibe there?
Bringing up topics from past conversations is always an easy excuse for asking someone to engage with you.
Im so jealous you got to see that new Avengers movie last night!
Give me your honest review of it.
Discussing your thoughts on a movie or show you recently watched leaves room for endless conversational possibilities.
Everything from the plot to the acting can lead to other subjects.
This is especially effective if you pick a franchise or series theyre a huge fan of.
Can you go over your recipe for that pasta sauce you made last week?
Im having trouble remembering exactly how you balanced the flavors.
Food is something we can all show enthusiasm for.
Theyll more than likely be flattered that you liked their cooking enough to try and replicate it.
Whats your most embarrassing childhood memory?
An oldie but a goodie, no one can resist retelling a few accounts of theiradolescent humiliations.
Theyll definitely want to ask the same of you, so be prepared to share yours.
Where do you want to travel to next, and why?
For some, traveling is a personality trait.
If your dry texter falls under that category, ask them all about their next trip.
