Singlehood
Because saying hey probably wont get you very far.
It can feel really awkward to start chatting with someone on a dating app.
And, of course, the best opening lines use a little humor.
“What’s Your Theme Song?”
How a person answers this will tell you a lot about them.
Will they make a joke or do they take themselves very seriously?
Also, a little glimmer into their music taste is always helpful.
“How Would You (Or Your Friends) Describe Yourself In Three Words?”
“Cheese, Pepperoni, Or Hawaiian?”
It’s important to get down to the hard-hitting political issues, right from the start.
Better to see if your ideals are aligned now rather than later.
“What’s The Worst Opening Line You’ve Ever Received?”
“What’s The Best Place You’ve Traveled?”
“What’s The Worst Date You’ve Ever Been On?
Mine Involved…”
Sometimes you have to give to get.
“We’re Married.
I’m Complaining That I Don’t Know What I Want To Eat.
You Suggest…?”
The answer to this question may define the rest of your life best to get it out early.
it’s possible for you to also tell a lot about a person based on their taste in food.
“What Three Characters Combined Best Describe You?”
SpongeBob Squarepants, Arya Stark, and Jerry Seinfeld?
“Why’d You Swipe Right?”
This question divides friendship groups, lovers, and countries (probably).
Find out now, before it’s too late.
“What Show Are You Marathon Watching Right Now?”
“What’s Your Favorite Book?”
“Are You A Stark, Lannister, Baratheon, Or Targaryen?”
“What’s The First Thing You Do When You Wake Up In The Morning?”
Seeing how they tackle their mornings can also be a fun way to learn more about them.
“Why Did You Pick This App?”
“What’s Your Idea Of A Perfect First Date?”
A good way to set the scene for things to come.
Plus, getting a sense oftheir dating stylecan be really useful.
If You Could Switch Lives With A Celebrity For A Day, Who Would It Be And Why?
“What’s The Best Opening Line you’re free to Think Of?”
This one’s a great choice when you’re interested but want them to take the lead.
“Favorite Sunday Activities?”
Jogging or antique shopping?
“What Meme Best Describes You And Why?”
Whether they’re a recent Twitter or TikTok meme, or a classic “This is fine.”
“What’s The Worst Nickname You’ve Ever Been Given?”
Get some insight into their personality.
Nicknames are normally there for a reason, and they tend to stem from a great story.
“Most Embarrassing Childhood Memory?
Mine Is…”
This is another conversation opener where it can help to give a little first.
Simply share an embarrassing story and see what comes back.
“You Have 72 Hours Left On Earth.
What Do You Do?”
Either way, it can kick off a fun convo.
“Standard Greeting,Harry PotterPickup Line, Or Rap Battle?”
“How Many Different Pasta Shapes Can You Name?”
If they can only name one or two, follow up by asking what they like to cook.
And just like that, you’ll have afirst date idea.
Im Letting You Assume One Thing About Me From My Profile: Go.
If You Could See Any Movie For The First Time Again, What Would It Be?
This is basically a creative way to ask what someones favorite movie is without sounding like a drag.
And maybe it can even lead to amovie night date.
Whats Your Go-To Karaoke Song?
Knowing someones favorite karaoke song is incredibly revealing.
If they dont have one at all?
Not to mention, this line sets you up perfectly to suggest a karaoke meetup.
If You Could Be On Any Reality TV Show, What Would It Be?
Their answer to this will reveal…
A. what kind of shows theyre into.
B. what their general interests are.
C. if theyre competitive or not.
Guess What My Drink Order Is And Ill Guess Yours.
Everyone loves a little two-way guessing game.
You know what you like, and you arent afraid to go after it.
Where Are We Going On Our First Vacation?
What Does Your Ideal First Date Entail?
Bonus points if you have similar answers youll have an easy plan for your first outing together.
Your Dog Is So Cute!
We Should Take Our Puppies To The Park Sometime.
This demonstrates both confidence and a mutual interest to connect with, Marie explains.
What Are You Most Passionate About?
Describe Yourself In 3 Emojis
Emojis keep things light but also interesting.
What Are Your 3 Most Frequently Used Emojis?
Lets Settle This Once & For All: Is A Hot Dog A Sandwich?
Whats Your Guilty Pleasure?
I Wont Judge If You Dont Judge Mine!
Heres a quick way to lighten the mood and bond over sharing potentially embarrassing things about yourselves.
Which Actor Would Play You In A Movie About Your Life?
What would the movie be called?
Where would it be filmed?
Youre Treating Me To A Home-Cooked Three-Course Meal.
What Are You Making?
What Is The Best Gift You Ever Received?
Guess What Im Thinking Right Now.
Best Concert Youve Ever Been To Go.
This is a great prompt for the music lovers out there.
Maybe theyll even put you on to some new tunes, too.
Settle A Debate: Is Soup A Cereal?
Which Of Your Friends Helped You Create This Profile?
Whats One Album You Never Get Tired Of?
Thats why music-related questions are always a good go-to, because who doesnt love music?
At Least One Of Us Know How To [Detail From Their Profile].
Acknowledging a certain skill or talent of theirs is a simple way to learn more about their hobby.
How long have they been doing it for?
What inspired them to start?
Who knows maybe theyll offer you a free lesson.
Whats Your Favorite Comfort Food?
If you cant bond over a shared love of food, then whatcanyou bond over?
What Should I Have For Dinner Tonight?
Two birds, one stone.
Would You Rather Fight 500 Ostriches Or One T-Rex?
Silly questions like this are memorable, which, in turn, makes you memorable, too.
We Cant Keep Running Into Each Other Like This!
Wanna Exchange Secrets?
Whats The Weirdest Dream Youve Ever Had?
Just dont judge themtoohard for their wacky subconscious hallucinations.
If You Could Host A TED Talk On Anything, What Would It Be About?
Tell Me The Story About How You Adopted Your [Pet].
[Profile Detail] Looks Fun!
Can I Join Next Time?
Who knows, perhaps this question will even inspire a first date.
Whats The Best Advice You Ever Received?
If You Still Had AOL Instant Messenger Today, What Would Your Away Message Be?
Got Any Good Pickup Lines?
Im All Tapped Out.
Throw the ball back in their court and make them do all the work.
You Just Won The Lottery.
What Are You Spending Your Winnings On?
Who among us hasnt fantasized about buying a mansion in the English countryside after winning the MegaMillions?
Where Was Your Last Picture Taken?
The View Looks Incredible!
You Have Great Music Taste Who Was On Your Spotify Wrapped?
Quiet as its kept, Spotify Wrapped is secretly the ultimate wingman.
This could lead to some gentle, playful ribbing, which makes for great flirty banter.
Want To Play Two Truths & A Lie?
If You Could Have One Superpower, What Would It Be?
You dont have to be a Marvel expert to have a dream superpower.
TBH, I Hate Dating Apps.
Wanna Take This IRL?
Constructing the perfect opening line can be quite the challenge but it doesnt have to be.
If you want to get a response, notice things in their bio or stick with questions.
Dating is, after all, about getting to know each other.
Experts:
Kate MacLean, resident dating expert at PlentyOfFish
Allison Marie, dating coach
