I Tried It
These are the gender-inclusive underwear Ive been looking for.
In recent years, Ive focussed more on examining my gender expression.
In doing so, I realized that I prefer wearing mens clothing.
When it comes to underwear, however, I havent found the right style.
Eventually, I realized that my bisexualitydoesmake me a real queer and that gender inclusive includes me.
It took some serious self-reflection with the help of a therapist to help mework through my queer imposter syndrome.
Because of this, I hadnt explored genderless underwear.
Full-coverage granny panties, boyshorts, bikinis even mens boxer briefs all felt nothing like me.
I was looking for comfort and fit, neither of which I could find.
Fast Facts
What Is Gender-Inclusive Underwear?
As its name suggests, gender-inclusive underwear is meant to be inclusive of identities across the gender spectrum.
Woxer focuses on comfort, confidence, and empowerment.
In those, I felt like I was cosplaying in someone elses undergarments.
They were too baggy in the crotch and the leg holes were too wide.
The only thing that fit as intended was the waist.
The Product: Woxer Baller
I tried the mid-riseBaller 2.0, which has a 5-inch inseam.
According to Woxers website, this is the brands most popular length.
I ordered the After Dark print in a medium, based on Woxers size chart.
First Impression
The first thing I noticed was Woxers eco-friendly packaging.
Though the outer envelope was a standard plastic mailer, the inner wrapping was compostable, which I appreciated.
When I pulled them out, the fabric was smooth and soft.
They felt fancy something Im not used to feeling when opening a new pair of underwear.
I loved the length as soon as I put them on.
I was immediately comfortable in both the boxers and my own skin.
They didnt ride up my thighs or give me a wedgie, like my ill-fitting mens boxers had done.
They were comfortable for all three, with no chafing or discomfort to speak of.
They were also super sweat-wicking and breathable, especially compared to my cotton underwear.
Once I flattened the fabric, though, they stayed put.
After three months of regular wear, my Woxers still have plenty of life.
The stretch in both the fabric and waistband is still strong, and the colors havent faded.
The Verdict
Woxer combined a more masculine undergarment style with a cut that better fit my body.
The brand delivered on its promise: truly empowering, comfortable, and fun to wear.
It was powerful to finally experience a more gender-inclusive product than what Ive typically found in department stores.
This underwear feel incredibly affirming and they even feel a little bit like me.
