Believe it or not, many people tend to be kinkier than they think.
The kink isnt limited to cis, straight couples, and it doesnt always center around procreation.
For some, its a way to play with domination or build intimacy with their partner.
Breeding kinks arent necessarily a new concept, but why are they trending now?
For people who have breeding kinks, this practice can be an empowering or even healing sexual coping mechanism.
It could be about taking power back, says Rosen.
So, what is a breeding kink, and how can you safely explore it?
Below, Rosen shares everything you should probably know about the trending kink.
What Is A Breeding Kink?
A breeding kink is often more psychological than physical.
Unprotected sex is usually an exclusive act reserved for someone you know and trust, she says.
Why Do People Have Breeding Kinks?
It ties into domination and ownership, and/or it can be about intimacy and safety.
There is a very wide spectrum of dynamics that could be acted out through breeding fantasy play.
It could be more in the vein of domination andBDSM, or it could be something sweet and trusting.
Breeding kinks incorporate the idea of wanting to create permanence with someone.
Individuals can explore their breeding fantasies without a partner by watching porn or reading erotica while masturbating.
you could also find sex toys that mimic breeding.
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For best results, bring it up in a way that is attached to a positive experience.
When your partner feels close to you and seen, they will be more receptive.
Give your partner space to ask questions.
Remind your partner that a breeding kink doesnt necessarily mean that you want to be pregnant or impregnate anyone.
Planning ahead and communicating openly and honestly can bring about better results and eventually a whole lot of pleasure.
Expert:
Sara Rosen, LCSW, certified sex therapist