Sex
It’s like the love language for your sex life.
What Are The Five Erotic Blueprints?
It breaks sexual identities into five basic types, says Brame.
I look at it as a useful therapy tool to help people explore sexual identity without shame.
you could be one of five erotic blueprints: energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter.
Sensual:Sensual people are all about the five senses.
Using things like wax play or experimenting with tastes or textures might really turn you on.
Sexual:Those with sexual blueprints like to get straight to it.
Anything and everything surrounding sexual acts themselves is what brings you pleasure if you have this erotic language.
Think: jumping straight into the sheets after a romantic dinner and less lead-up foreplay.
Playing with elements like pain and pleasure or power exchanges is fitting to your sexual identity.
Why Is Your Erotic Blueprint Important?
Jaiyas websitehas a quizthat you and your partner can each take to figure out your erotic blueprints.
What If You And Your Partner Have Different Erotic Blueprints?
Theres no need to fret if you and your partner have different erotic blueprints, says Brame.
Once you and your S.O.
In short: Knowledge is power, and that certainly applies to your time underneath the sheets.
Expert:
Dr. Gloria Brame, sex therapist and certified sexologist
