Sex
Here’s the spell I used and how it worked for me.
I dont shy away from the topic of sex.
Truth is, I once used myorgasm to manifesta deeper connection with my now ex-boyfriend.
Sex magick uses sex, orgasms, and sensual play in spells to manifest your desires.
Lyons suggests embodying a deity or an archetype when practicing these spells.
Wear perfume you think they would like or wear their symbol as a necklace, she says.
I took a steamy shower and massaged lotion, then oil, all over my body.
I also prayed to Aphrodite, the literalGreek goddessof pleasure and sex.
(What better deity to consult for this endeavor?)
I sat down to meditate, focusing hard on mymanifestations.
Then, I wasfinallyready for some solo play.
Plus, its a good way to measure how my spell is working.
I cant say that I immediately felt like the embodiment of Aphrodite.
However, I did notice that I felt more deeply connected with sensations in and out of my body.
For example, I appreciated more non-sexual sensations, like holding hands and feeling the warmth of the shower.
I also felt more confident in my sexual prowess.
I felt more connected to my partner than ever before, almost like were both in a trance.
I couldnt help but wonder if this is how Aphrodite feels when others worship her.
If I could embody the power of Venus with another person, thats just a bonus.
You dont need a partner or have to cast an elaborate spell for it to work its magic.
You dont even need tohave an orgasmto do so.
Do what feels good to you.
If I want more pleasure in my life, well, thats all in my control.
Experts:
Sarah Lyons, witch and author ofHow to Study Magic
Javay Frye-Nekrasova (MEd), sex expert
