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Sex therapist Aliyah Moore shares her favorite bullets, rabbits, and wand massagers.

As certified sex therapistDr.

Set aside any guilt, taboo, or preconceived notions about pleasure, Moore says.

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If youre new to buying sex toys, Moore says that your first time will be liberating.

Buying a vibrator for the first time is a freeing and exciting experience, Moore says.

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Aliyah Moore, Ph.D., is a certified sex therapist.

In addition, using the wide head means youre getting broad stimulation that feels relaxing.

Magic Wand Rechargable

Review:One Amazon review writes: It has so much power.

Its made me feel things I’ve never felt before.

You will not be disappointed!!

We-Vibe Tango X

For a portable wand option, Moore loves the rechargeable Magic Wand.

This version comes with its own cord and charging adapter, rather than relying on batteries.

Review: My new favorite personal massager, writes one Amazon reviewer.

Lovehoney BASICS 5-Inch Mini Vibrator

Is just as powerful as the corded version, but more options for vibration.

The angled tip helps with direct clitoral stimulation during solo play, Moore says.

Also, can use this vibe to stimulate your other erogenous zones and those of your partner.

Lovense Lush 3

At only $7, this bestselling vibe is one of the most budget-friendly options.

Once its inserted, the curved egg-shaped tail is designed to hit your G-spot.

Theres a reason why every camgirl under the sun has one of these.

LOVENSE Ferri Wearable Magnetic Panty Vibrator

Review:It is a wonderful toy for long-distance play or in person.

The app allows me to give him full control no matter where he is and we both enjoy that.

Review:Id definitely 100% recommend this especially to long-distance couples, one Amazon reviewer writes.

LELO Soraya Wave

It looks gorgeous, is easy to use, and has all the power you need for great orgasms.

Rabbit-style vibrators have a lot to offer, given thats internal and external stimulation happening at once.

Review:One Amazon reviewer writes: Super nice and high-quality vibrator!

LELO Sila

Holding this toy above your clitoris helps create an intense yet buildable suction.

Review:This is amazing.

Extremely better than the previous model.

FUN FACTORY Volta

Softer vibration, not harsh.

Pretty quiet too when in use, one Amazon reviewer writes.

The tips flutter and tap rapidly against the clit, which feels fantastic, says Moore.

This thing distributes the vibrations and can be used in several different ways without overstimulating.

If you’re looking for a good quality external vibe, I highly recommend the Volta.

Do you prefer stroking your clitoris?

Do you prefer putting your fingers inside yourself?

Insertable vibrators are often phallic-shaped or curved to target your G-spot.

If you like both sensations, try aRabbit-style vibrator.

And if youre not sure yet, try masturbating using your fingers to see what turns you on.

Pick a vibrator that you think youllvibewith, says Moore.

As for the very best womens vibrator out there, theWe-Vibe Tango Xis one of Moores all-time favorites.