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TheCowboy Bebopstar said it was his wifes confidence that pulled him in.

If this sounds at all familiar, thats because its been done before.

The short answer?A lot.

HOLLYWOOD, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 09: (L-R) Kerri Higuchi and John Cho attend the 92nd Annual Academy…

In 2014, he became the first Asian American actor cast as a romantic lead inthe sitcomSelfie.

Four years later, he became the first Asian American to headline a mainstream thriller with his role in2018sSearching.

In a2015 interview withGlamour, Cho revealed that they exchanged their vows in Northern California on New Years Eve.

BEVERLY HILLS, CA - FEBRUARY 24:  Kerri Higuchi (L) and John Cho attend the 2019 Vanity Fair Oscar P…

Their son, Kage, was born in 2008, and they welcomed a daughter in 2013.

For Cho, it was his wifes self-confidence that initially pulled him in.

My wife was confident in a way that I was very attracted to, he told the magazine.

US-Korean actor John Cho and his wife actress Kerri Higuchi arrive for the 92nd Oscars at the Dolby …

She knows who she is.

I knew nothing about that.

I was so unsettled at that age and so scatterbrained.

Its beautiful when you see a person whos self-assured and knows who she is.

Cho has picked up more than just acting tips from Higuchi; she also introduced him to therapy.

Its hard to even talk to your wife or girlfriend about the deepest parts, he confessed.

I think we make a run at protect our women so much.

Particularly because Im a dad, and I venture to be the soldier in our family.

Chos marriage is a far cry from relationships he had in his twenties.

Sometimes I was not good.

Sometimes I was terrible, he admitted.

I think I had a wandering eye with some, but sometimes I was suffocating.

Sometimes I was distant.

Man, I was a mess when I was younger.

Cho told the magazine that, In hindsight, he shouldnt have started dating until his mid-thirties.

I was just an idiot for most of my 20s, he confessed.

I got married at 34.

Marriage is serious business if youre starting a family.

Youve got to be committed.

Its worth noting thatChos dating historybefore tying the knot remains a mystery.

Look for a girl whos kind, he said when asked what advice hell give his son.