Taylor Swifts Lavender Haze music video isa work of art.

For Ashley, this kind of simple yet significant representation can go a long way.

Why does it concern folks to that extent?

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That our existence becomes something thats so threatening to yours when its not.

Ashley reciprocated on Instagram, describing his filming experience as truly magical and calling her an ally.

Thank you for being an ally.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - OCTOBER 22: Laith Ashley poses in the IMDb Portrait Studio at the 2022 Out…

AND LOVE WILL ALWAYS WIN!

On Working With Taylor Swift

When Ashley first heard about Swifts offer, he was in disbelief.

I didnt know that someone that big would even know who I am.

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - FEBRUARY 08:  Honoree Laith Ashley De La Cruz attends the 2020 Black AIDS …

That meant, like all Swifties, he had to do some detective work.

Despite not getting the sneak peek fans may expect, Ashley calls being directed by Swift an incredible experience.

I had to put 100% of my trust in her, he says.

She was so kind and so open and welcoming.

She made me feel so comfortable.

Literally, I was so afraid to touch her.

I didnt want her to feel disrespected… And she jumped up and was like, Lets do it.

Yet modeling wasnt always the game plan.

Ashley studied business, psychology, and sociology in college and worked at an LGBTQ+ health center after graduating.

It was only after a photographer discovered him on Instagram that he ventured into the modeling and entertainment worlds.

I was like, You know what?

Let me take advantage of this opportunity.

… And those were the photos that went viral.

In January 2023 alone, over150 anti-trans bills have been introducedacross 25 states.

Additionally, at least37 transgender peoplewere killed by violent means in 2022.

I think that we need to be more vocal now about pushing back against this language, Ashley says.

Theyre not seeing the real-world consequences that it has for us.

People are dying, people are arming themselves and going into queer safe spaces… For additional resources for trans people, call theTrans Lifelineat 1-877-565-8860.

In an emergency, contact the988 Suicide & Crisis Lifelineby calling or texting 988, or call 911.