Point blank: you oughta stop doing wife sh*t for randos.
If youre seeking commitment and hes not your boyfriend or partner, hes ultimately just Some Guy.
This conversation surrounding relationship expectations has made its way to TikTok.
Some people might think that acting like theyre official early on might help them earn the title more easily.
You dont want your labor to outpace your actual commitment, though.
Plus, its critical to have boundaries about what those committed relationship perks look like for you.
Lets not confuse wife duties with mommy duties, Avgitidis says.
(They should have other people to turn to for all of that.)
In hard or frustrating times, Im going to show up for you as your partner.
Your own needs should far and away be the main priority when starting to see someone.
Girlfriend benefits are a currency.
You should be getting a return on your investment when youre in an exclusive relationship.
Sources:
Maria Avgitidis, CEO ofAgape Match
Kee Simone, micro-influencer
