Want a traditional-ish celebration without too much hassle?
The Guest List
The best way to know who you want there is to decide whos off the list.
The Venue
Find out what worked well for a newlywed.
The Invitations
In an uncertain era, digital invites are more acceptable than ever.
When Do I Realistically Need To Start Planning?
No one wants to make decisions under pressure or in a hurry, Silver says.
My advice is always to start planning shortly after being engaged.
If you make a guest list and book a venue early, you’ll be in great shape.
After that, plan based on whats most important to you.
If you care the most about photos, book your photographer really early, Silver says.
Or if dancing is your number one biggest thing, book your band early.
Because the earlier you book them, [the more likely you are to] get your first choice.
The Flowers
Cant tell the difference between a hydrangea and a hyacinth?
The Dress
Plus, the sweet spot for when you should start shopping.
Do I Actually Need One?
In short, probably.
Hiring a wedding planner means you get to makewayless decisions!
The Hair & Makeup
Finding your look doesn’t have to involve months of trials and hundreds of dollars.
The Table Seating
A strategy is necessary for this one.
The Photographer
You dont need to be a creative director to ensure your wedding is properly captured.
What Are The Time-Sucking, Unnecessary Things I Can Skip Right Off The Bat?
Luckily, lots of things.
People don’t care about that stuff, Silver says.
People care about temperature control, about not having to wait in line for drinks.
The Guest Favors
Favors dont necessarily need to mean stuff.
The Music
Nothing sets the scene quite like the dance floor.