Extremely Online
It makes me feel less ashamed of my unsavory habits.
Social media is notorious for showing everyones absolute best side.
This is why I fell in love with TikTok.
Suddenly, I felt at home.
My less-than-ideal lifestyle wasnt niche or embarrassing but 100% normal according to the app.
Letting Your Guard Down
It isnt just me who appreciates this vibe.
It normalizes not being perfect, and it gives us a space to live authentically rather than hide.
Why yes, I do eat themost random girl dinners, just like my parasocial besties on the app.
So many trends have been born from this posting style, too.
Nothings off-limits, and its so refreshing.
When people say, I thought I was the only one who did that!
theyre not only bonding over a shared experience; theyre creating a sense of belonging, she says.
Bonding In The Comments
It creates this tribe feeling where you say, These are my people.
Thats significant for mental health and it creates connection and makes you feel less alone, says Slavens.
It also creates a ripple effect when one person opens up, others feel safe to do the same.
Source:
Caitlin Slavens, MC, psychologist
