Tarot
Surprising lessons await.
Valentines Day is a great time to check in on yourself.
How do you feel about yourself?
What role does love play in your life?
Tarot can help you explore these ideas.
For thisValentines Day 2023tarot reading, I set an intention of receiving love advice.
Take the guidance that resonates with you and leave the rest.
If Youre In Love…
Card 1: How can you understand your relationship better?
Its time to get excited about your goals for the future.
Dream big; the world is your oyster.
Are your ideas in alignment?
Have youclearly communicatedwith each other?
Its important not to limit yourself or each other out of fear of change.
This is a time of expansion and forward movement.
Card 2: What do you should probably pay attention to?
Take an honest and compassionate look at habits or patterns that no longer serve you.
Dont look away from any difficult parts of your relationship, or your beliefs about yourself.
These are old wounds coming up to be healed.
You are responsible for your own healing, but you are also part of a relationship dynamic.
Listen when your partner expresses feelings, too.
If your partner is shutting you out or ignoring issues, this is important information for you.
You might want to make some changes.
Card 3: What will best support your growth?
The 5 of Wands:This card is about the necessity of (some) conflict.
Its anatural part of any healthy relationship,though it needs to be navigated respectfully.
Practice patience, compassion, and deep listening.
Notice if clashes tend to spiral out of control, or end with one person being dismissed orgaslit.
Sometimes, disagreements inspire positive change.
The 6 of Swords:This is a card of journeys, both literal and figurative.
Card 2: What should your next relationship feel like?
The 8 of Swords:This card is about feeling stuck when youre not truly stuck.
You have options, but you might not know or accept them yet.
If it seems like theres no good match for you out there, dont settle or give up.
Seek out people who encourage and inspire you, and keep moving until you find them.
Look for those who lovingly challenge you to grow and go after the kind of life you want.
Hold out for a connection that feels like a breath of fresh air.
Card 3: How can you move toward a relationship?
If Youre Focused On Singlehood…
Card 1: How can you prioritize yourself?
The 6 of Pentacles:This is the card of charity.
It teaches you that generosity brings abundance.
Consider volunteering in your community, helping friends and family, or donating to causes you care about.
Your strength will be restored if you approach yourself and others with kindness.
Focus on cultivating joy in your life, and lift up others as you succeed.
Card 2: What needs to be healed?
Justice:This card is a lesson in accountability.
Dont be hard on yourself about how you feel, what youve been through, or what youve done.
You need and deserve softness as well as honesty.
Consider exploring your past relationships witha therapistor trusted love one, and work toward finding healthy solutions.
Card 3: What will help you move on?
The Queen of Swords:This card gives you permission to be independent.
Pave your own path, but know it’s possible for you to always ask for help if needed.
Cut ties with people who are no longer right for you.
Dont let nostalgia or guilt keep you stuck in the past; its time to charge forward.
This card is also an invitation to tap into your most authentic self.
Being true to yourself is the greatest gift.
The right people will respect you for it.
See where that takes you.
Accept what you find unconditionally, and be honest about where you would like to go from here.
Carve out a little time for yourself around this holiday to do something sweet for yourself.
Share love with others, and do your best to express yourself with truth and kindness.
